On your special day, you have a lot to worry about, from the ceremonial plans to reception ideas to the dress…it can all be very overwhelming. And at a time like this, you may not even consider the speech you'll be expected to give as the bride. Still, you will need to prepare a speech to give at your wedding reception, and though you have a lot on your plate already, I would suggest writing the speech ahead of time for best results. There's probably a lot you will want to say on this day, to your parents, husband, and guests. All of your thoughts and emotions can get tangled up, especially if you don't have the words you want to say written down. If you are having trouble getting started, use these tips to help. Take your time writing your bridal wedding speech. There is much to say and express, and these things may take time to unfold into a format you agree with. You will also want to make sure the toast is something special, and unique to you, so don't rush things. Getting started with the speech is always the most difficult part. Once you have begun, things usually ease up though, so just take a deep breath and get started. You can begin by thanking the guests for coming, but everyone else has likely already done that. If jokes and silliness come easily to you, you can start the speech with a bit of humor. Another great way to begin the bridal wedding speech is to formally introduce yourself to the crowd by your married name. Once you have gotten past the beginning, things should get easier for you. You can tell your guests and husband how much you have looked forward to this day, or share a special memory from childhood, or even tell about childhood dreams and expectations for this day. Now is a good time to fully express to your husband how much you love and adore him, and offer hope for your future together with him. You can also use this time to thank your parents for being there for you and your parents-in-law for being there for you in the future. Now is the time to share your love for those in your life, as well as to express your hopes and dreams for the future. The closing can be just as difficult as the opening for some brides, who talk on and on. For an effective ending, simply raise your glass and toast your future, your love, or your marriage. It really is quite that simple to end your wedding speech. Another great way to end the wedding speech would be to admit to your husband how excited you are for the future and how much you look forward to tomorrow being the first full day as his wife.