Stop Living In Fear

A Scripted Freelance Writer Writing Sample

Fear comes from the Enemy, and it plagues all of us to varying degrees. There are at least as many things to be afraid of as there are people to be afraid. Here, I'm not talking about being afraid of snakes, elevators, spiders, bridges and so on. I'm talking about fear that keeps you from moving forward in your life. When we are blocked from doing something, however big or small, it's fear that's in charge. I don't know about you, but I'm certainly not going to let Satan be in charge of anything in my life! For instance, maybe you're fearful of taking the leap and committing to a relationship. Maybe you're afraid of asking your boss for a promotion that you so deserve. Maybe you're scared to put yourself out there socially. Maybe you're afraid of standing up for yourself or asking for what you want. Maybe you're worried about trying that new business venture.

Fear is generated by negative automatic thoughts, or NATs, as I call them. These NATs are far more annoying and troublesome than the winged-variety gnats—even when they're in a swarm! So, how do we overcome the fear that blocks us?

  1. Start by asking yourself, "What are the self-limiting thoughts that are in my way right now?" Some examples:
  2. I don't have enough time.
  3. I should just stick with what I know.
  4. I can't do this.
  5. I've never done anything like this before.
  6. I'm not qualified to do this.
  7. I'm sure I'll fail.
  8. The last time I tried this, it didn't work.
  9. I don't deserve it.
  10. I'm not worth it.
  11. There's someone more qualified.
  12. Next, ask yourself, "What is it that I am really afraid of here?" Common fears include abandonment, betrayal, rejection, failure, embarrassment and success. Then, there's being afraid of being afraid. That's known as anxiety. Anxiety can work for us or against us. It works for us when it comes in moderation. It works against us when it's too high (choking) or too low (psyching out).
  13. Finally, ask yourself, "What's the worst thing that can happen?" You can't always guarantee success, but if no one is going to die or lose limb, you can get through it.

This process will likely be anxiety-provoking, and there may be times you want to quit. If so, tell yourself this: "What I'm doing isn't working, so it's time to try something else." Godspeed!

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Jennifer B

Buckeye, Arizona, United States •

I am a clinical psychologist who is licensed to practice in the state of Arizona. I attended the University of Texas at Austin for my undergraduate degree in psychology and then went on to Baylor University to pursue my doctoral degree in clinical psychology. While in graduate school, I was selected for the U.S. Army’s Health Professions Scholarship Program. After completing my work at Baylor, I was chosen for a residency at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in Washington, D.C. From there, I went on to complete army medical and mental health training at Fort Sam Houston in Texas, as well as aeromedical psychology training at Fort Rucker in Alabama. After my training was completed, I served as an active duty psychologist at Fort Huachuca, Arizona. Upon honorable discharge from the military, I opened a private practice in Sierra Vista, Ari...

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