How Do You Avoid Peer Pressure?

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How Do You Avoid Peer Pressure?

Teens often place high value on the opinions their friends have of them, and positive peer pressure can influence good behavior. But at other times peer pressure, even in subtle ways, can sway even confident teens into trying something risky. Read on for pointers on how to keep your cool, your good friends and still say, "No, thank you."

Although you feel confident in your decision not to use drugs or alcohol there is a lot of peer pressure out there, even for someone as strong-willed as you. While peer influence plays a positive role in the social and emotional development of kids and teens, it is also true that peers can have a negative influence as well. It can be hard to avoid pressure from a friend offering a way to fit in, and California's legalization of adult-use recreational cannabis may give a false sense of assuming "no problem." But remember, state law restricts cannabis use to persons 21 years or over, along with a slew of sale and use regulations that carry heavy penalties if not followed. It is important to note that using weed as a teen will have no positive effect when you are older, but things you do that could be harmful may have a significant impact on your life, including, depending on age, a $100 infraction, doing community service, or drug counseling.

So how do you assert yourself and stay with your decisions to abstain without making a big deal about it? Try these proven tips to help take the pressure off on those times when a direct "no thanks" is not enough.

  1. If you have your license, offer to be the designated driver to get friends home safely. Everyone will appreciate that you didn't drink or use drugs.

  2. When out with friends or at a party have a bottled or canned drink, like soda, juice, ice tea or mineral water with you to help keep the pressure to drink alcohol off. With something to drink in your hand you are less likely to be pressured to drink alcohol, and just say, "I'm good" if you need to say no. Build a reputation that you never smoke anything, as you are prone to bronchitis or are getting over a sore throat.

  3. If you are on a sports team or preparing for an event let everyone know you are into staying healthy to increase your competitive edge. No arguments there.

  4. Say you need to get up early the following morning to take a big test, drive to a family event, or other activity that needs your full mental focus.

  5. Do something to look busy. Get up and dance, engage in a conversation, offer to DJ, or sing your heart out at karaoke. Basically, divert your friends' attention off of you since you are already busy doing your own thing and they should leave you alone.

If none of these tips work and friends still apply pressure and won't let you enjoy the party without drugs, then it's time to head for the door. Admit there is nothing fun for you there and leave. If you find yourself in the same situation every weekend then you may need a new plan of action. When you know the party will have alcohol or friends plan to do drugs at a concert or club, it might be easier for you to just not show up. Think about what you could do differently to stay true to yourself and follow your own path with no excuses.

Melanie Graysmith, 2018

I am a writer, artist, and educator with a passion for everything creative. I enjoy the art of words as my writing style takes a fresh approach. As an educator teaching English as a Second Language (ESL), grammar, and writing, I am an effective communicator. My teaching background has positively impacted my writing style; I give careful attention to language and voice and add a sharp touch to every writing project. I earned a master’s degree in adult education with an emphasis on ESL, plus have BA degrees in Japanese and Illustration, and previously worked as a graphic artist. I am a skilled wordsmith experienced in writing for the web: articles, web copy, blog posts, and social media updates. I produce high quality, professional copy on a range of topics: higher education, home and lifestyle, art and culture, business, expert intervi...

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